Friday, September 30, 2011

To Learn and to Serve:

Emily Vrotsos

Meredith Tweed

WST 4021

30 September 2011

Girls and Leadership Service-Learning Proposal

Community Partner

Community Partner: Young Women Leaders Program
Address: 4000 Central Florida Blvd, Orlando, FL 32816
Contact: 407-823-6502

Mission Statement: “The Young Women Leaders Program is a mentoring program sponsored by the UCF Women’s Studies Program . . . YWLP promotes middle school girls’ leadership abilities, pairing collegiate women with middle school girls. In mentoring pairs and small groups of Big and Little Sisters, participants focus on learning competence and autonomy, independent thinking, empowerment, self-esteem, and encouraging girls to think about their futures.” (http://womensstudies.cah.ucf.edu/ywlp/)

Political and/or Social Basis for Organization: As stated above, the basis for the organization is to promote positive self-image and encourage leadership skills in young girls who are at an important part of their developmental stages (http://womensstudies.cah.ucf.edu/ywlp/).

Community Needs: Members of the YWLP will benefit from extra assistance organizing and running alumni events and UCF day in the form of running lesson plans and engaging the girls in activities that encourage and acknowledge how they are leaders in their everyday lives.

Memorandum

TO: Meredith Tweed

FROM: Emily Vrotsos

DATE: September 30, 2011

RE: Proposal to Write a Feasibility Report for a Service Learning Project

Need of the Community Partner:

Youth leadership is highly undervalued in American society. While complicates the leadership efforts of adolescents in general, it is especially relevant when considering girls’ leadership. With only a few role models, either “real world” or fictional, of women and/or girls in positions of leadership to look up to, and with their own attempts at leadership so often discouraged or ignored, girls may find it difficult to view themselves as leaders. Apart from its potential long-term effects on the emergence of future women leaders, this also has more immediate short-term effects, including possible struggles with self-esteem, self-confidence in themselves and their work, and other issues of self-image and conduct that may go underdeveloped in girls who are so infrequently encouraged to think critically about and give voice to their own experiences and decisions.

Plan Proposal:

As part of working with YWLP, an organization focused on helping girls develop and use leadership skills, our project will address much the same need. In response to the specific needs we have so far seen demonstrated by this semester’s group of little sisters, we have shifted the focus of our work with the girls to more effectively address bullying. We hope to support the girls in exploring ways to respond to bullying (including cyber-bullying) of themselves and others, and possible ways to creatively raise others’ awareness of the bullying problem, on- and offline.

Through the creation of a ’zine, a Twitter account, a scrapbook, and two videos by the middle school girls in YWLP and a anti-bullying lesson on UCF Day and an academic blog by our service-learning group, we will be meeting the needs of our community partner. This approach will allow the girls to create and have agency in their own spaces and will allow our group to tackle the topic of bullying directly by engaging the girls to find their own positive leadership influence in their everyday activities and also in technological endeavors.

Rationale for Women’s Studies:

This project is relevant to our Girls and Leadership course, as well as the Girls Studies movement, because it is a project geared directly toward having girls create and develop their own spaces where their voices can be heard and where they can move themselves forward. "All teenagers can learn about leadership and define for themselves what it means" (van Linden and Fertman 6). It is important that these girls understand they are young leaders in their day-to-day lives, and that leadership is not reserved for adults or for those in formal leadership positions. Leaders are those "...who think for themselves, communicate their thoughts and feelings to others, and helps others understand and act on their own beliefs; they influence others in an ethical and socially responsible way" (van Linden 17). When the girls create their own spaces on the internet and with other forms of technology and media they will have the opportunity to recognize and then utilize the leadership skills which they already possess, and in doing so they will be able to further develop other leadership qualities as their years and experience progress.

Action:

In order to fulfill our service-learning requirement, our group has several different components that we will be implementing as a work-in-progress throughout the semester. Apart from working with the girls, we will also be creating an academic blog to which we will be documenting our progress, including our activism logs and other conclusions we will be drawing as the semester continues. We will be attending the weekly meetings and participating on the weekend alumni events.

The largest portion of our project will be compiling a ’zine wholly developed and executed by the middle school girls participating in YWLP. The girls will also be decorating a scrapbook to document their progression throughout this semester’s service-learning project, which will be an ongoing part of their YWLP experience. We will also be engaging the girls on the internet by creating spaces for them on Twitter and Youtube. A Twitter account will be set up by our service-learning group and we will post thoughts the girls turn in on slips of paper at the end of every meeting. The girls will also be creating a YWLP promotional video and an independent video of their own creative design. On UCF Day we will be conducting a lesson on bullying, with a section on cyber bullying. We will also be working on the scrapbook, voting on the ’zine’s title, and filming the videos.

Timeline:

Our completed project will be submitted on 29 November 2011. Given YWLP’s schedule, our in-field work will extend a few days beyond this date; however, the bulk of our research will be completed by 17 November, and the major creative components of our project will be ready for our in-class presentation of it on 8 December.

9/23/2011—First Group Meeting (Big sisters met up and created a rough plan)

9/25/2011—Alumnae Potluck

10/5/2011—Big Sister Meeting

10/12/2011— Little Sister Meeting

10/15/2011—UCF Day

10/19/2011—Big Sister Meeting

10/23/2011—Alumnae Nursing Home Visit

10/26/2011—Little Sister Meeting

11/2/2011—Big Sister Meeting

11/6/2011—Alumnae Mud Walk

11/9/2011—Little Sister Meeting

11/13/2011—Alumnae Soup Kitchen Volunteering

11/16/2011—Big Sister Meeting

11/19/2011—Alumnae Picnic in the Park

11/25/2011—Finish compiling the ’zine using girls’ submissions and publish (by combination of printed copies for the girls and PDF for the bigs) to distribute at the last Littles meeting.

11/29/2011—Submit final project report, including creative components (’zine, scrapbook pages, video made with the girls, etc.)

11/30/2011—Little Sister Meeting

12/8/2011—In-class presentation of project


Works Cited

"UCF: CAH: Young Women Leaders Program." UCF: CAH: Women's Studies Program: Mentoring Programs for Faculty. University of Central Florida, 2010. Web. 28 Sept. 2011.

Van Linden, Josephine A., and Carl I. Fertman. Youth Leadership: A Guide to Understanding Leadership Development in Adolescents. San Francisco: Jossey-Bass, 1998. Print.

Word Count: 924

Thursday, September 1, 2011

To My Fellow Leaders, With Love:

My name is Emily. I was born and raised for the first 10 years of my life on a small farm in Hugo, Minnesota, and in the year I turned 11 my family moved to a small farm in Summerfield, Florida. I don't really remember my life in Minnesota, and so many important milestones in my life happened in Florida; when someone asks where my hometown is I will always say Ocala. I attended school in Ocala, I swam on the year-round team in Ocala, and Ocala is where some of my favorite memories took place.

I have a huge family. Both sides of my family are practicing Roman Catholics... and, evidently, neither set of my grandparents believed in any form of birth control. My mom's side is largely Scottish and Irish, and I could describe every one of them as loud and proud. My dad's side is half Greek and half Hungarian, and, before you ask, yes, family reunions and holidays are exactly like what you saw in My Big Fat Greek Wedding. My family is enormous and obnoxious and I wouldn't trade them for anything. Sometimes it feels empty without my grandparents, who all passed by the time I was 10, but we all have a little bit of each of them in our bodies and in our mannerisms; I have my Granddad's eyes, my Grandmother's height, my Grandfather's curly hair, and my Gamma's talent for music. In my family, wherever you go, whatever you do, there's always somebody who wants to know how you are and somebody else who just woke up that morning with the feeling that they need to call and tell you they love you.

My immediate family consists of my mom, my dad, and my brother, who is three years and nine months my junior. My mom raised me to pursue what I love and not to take any shit from people. My dad raised me to be compassionate and determined. They both raised me to be a powerful woman with intellect and a love for life.

My little brother is always a light in my life. We have always been incredibly close and he was there for me when a lot of other people were not. He is exceptionally intelligent, kind-hearted, and optimistic. There is no doubt in my mind that he is a better person than I am. He is also gay. Nicholas came out to me this past April, and he is so much happier now that it's out in the open. He has created a Youtube channel to spread his own version of the message that it's okay to be gay. If you want to check it out, watch his first video:


If you want to see more of his videos, search for his channel on Youtube: lovehopeandkindness

This is my last year of undergrad at UCF and it has been a wonderful experience. When I graduate in May, I will have earned my Bachelor's in English Lit, minors in Medieval & Renaissance Studies, Women's Studies, and Writing, and a certificate in Service Learning.

My views on activism and feminism tend to favor this approach: I believe that our society is definitely in need of revolutionary changes to demolish our systems of discrimination and oppression. I believe that education should be the first step in that revolution. My dad always told me (and my Granddad always told my mom) that education is something no one can ever take away from me. My parents always pushed me to educate myself, to search for answers to my questions, and to never ever stop questioning. They remind my brother and me from time to time that once we become too complacent and stop asking questions, that's when we make ourselves most vulnerable and we are at our weakest in regard to being taken advantage of. We're not going to make this a better world if we stop questioning and demanding answers.

One type of leadership I do now is working with the Young Women Leaders Program. I have been a Big Sister for two semesters, and this semester will be my first semester as a Facilitator. We promote competence, autonomy, and connection in local middle school girls of Seminole County. It is the most rewarding thing I have ever done, and I hope to stay involved after I graduate or to create a similar program wherever I move after graduation. My brother loves everything he hears about YWLP, and he really wants to begin a Young Men Leaders Program wherever he attends college next year. (Two sibling activists!!)

What I h0pe to learn about girls and leadership this semester is how to gender the arguments about girls' rights, and how to use this gendering of arguments to create a greater understanding of girls and how to use their uniqueness as a tool to further the girl studies movement.

I have read, understand, and agree to the terms of the course syllabus and the blogging protocols.